What is Success ? How can I get Success ? How to get Succeeded in Life ?

What is Success ? How can I get Success ? How to get Succeeded in Life ? 

                These are the all time high questions which would be striking across our mind at times. If you find the generic answers for these questions, You  are living your life.

              You cannot put a pause to your life respective of your will and wish. Life has to move on for everybody, Howsoever and whomsoever it is. In the process of finding the Success, We are failing to taste the essence of success we attained and at the end we are even forgetting to ask the question to our self whether we attained the Success or not in journey of finding the Success.

Especially for people in India, Success is a fantasy. We will be having Success only in dreams and imaginations. Success in reality for Indians is something baffles understanding and it is just an illusion, Because we are forced to drive our life on the road which was laid by the society. But anyway Instead of changing the path, It is better to find happiness in the vector where we are now.

In order to find the Success, We need to know what is Success at the outset. Without that there will not any meaning in seeking for success, Okay

What is Success ?

         Just ask this Question to yourself , and know what your mind gets first. And that is where you are . I asked this question to many and most of their responses are like Success is getting the more salary, getting what you desire, eating what you like, getting management or administrative roles, getting respect, position where able to buy what you like, getting familiar to society, getting fame, etc..

         But my doubt is, Are they really happy about the success once attained. Say for example getting 3lakhs per month is position of feeling success  Will he be happy after that or will he stop working to get more salary beyond that . He may feel succeeded the life but he will not be happy. They define it by money. The more you have the more successful you are. Granted, the world today is more competitive and expensive than it was. So the need for money is of importance, but is money really the true  measure of success? He might have achieved the target, he might be a achiever not a successful man in life because Success is a journey and not a destination.

       The definition of success varies between people. Achieving personal success does not have to be difficult. Success is purely an abstract word but it is not an enigma  OK let me try to give you a some hints to catch the meaning of Success.

      Success is not a binary, it’s a range. Success is not an amount of money in a bank safe nor all the possessions you might have. Success is not about how many friends or relatives you have.Success is not about impressing other people. Success is not having never failed at anything.

       But first you need to know what success means to you. Not some general definition of success. You need to see what you and your life would look like when you are successful. Developing a strong vision of what you will look like when you are truly successful will help you step into that person in your imagination's shoes. You will start living life as a success.

      For me, Success is simple .It’s being able to wake up each morning, and have the freedom to spend that day in a way that’ll matter to you and make you happy without disturbing others. To be even more clear, If you are able to do the things which gives you happiness without hurting anyone or anything  then you are one amongst the successful men in this planet.

     If we start finding the Success in the materialistic costly world, our find will never come to an end, It will be a delusion. Success and Happiness should be compatible in life. Success without happiness is really not a success in reality. Today I was a more successful person than I was yesterday.  This is because I did less of the things that aren't important to me and more of the things that are. If you feel less successful than you should be after reading this that’s okay.  It’s not a failure, it’s an opportunity for more success, that is if you want it to be.  So do not lose the one life in the search of reaching your own defined success. Try to be happy than being successful.